Losing a Furry Friend- Grief, Loss and Love

Today, I want to share with you a deeply personal and emotional journey that I recently went through - the loss of my beloved dog, Chubbs. Chubbs, also known as Chubb Rock, was not just a pet; he was a cherished member of our family for 12 wonderful years. Sadly, his battle with diabetes took him away from us, and I had to make the heart-wrenching decision to let him go.

Remembering Chubbs
Chubbs was a Silverback Yorkie with a personality as big as his heart. He brought joy, laughter, and unconditional love into our lives every day. His silky silver, black and brown  fur, expressive eyes, and wagging tail were a constant source of happiness. We shared countless adventures, belly rubs, and cozy cuddles. He was not just a pet; he was my confidant, my friend, and my fur baby.

The Battle with Diabetes
About a year ago, Chubbs was diagnosed with diabetes. It was a challenging journey for both him and us. Managing his condition required a strict daily routine of insulin injections, monitoring his blood sugar levels, and adjusting his diet. Despite the difficulties, Chubbs faced it all with bravery and resilience.

The Difficult Decision
As the months passed, Chubbs' health began to decline. His diabetes was taking a toll on his tiny body, and he was no longer the lively, playful pup we knew. It was agonizing to watch him struggle, and it became clear that his quality of life was diminishing. Making the decision to say goodbye was the hardest thing I've ever done.

Coping with Grief
Losing Chubbs left a void in my heart that feels immeasurable.  I found myself longing for his presence every day. Coping with pet loss can be an incredibly challenging journey, and I want to share some resources that helped me during this difficult time:

1. Talk to Friends and Family: Sharing your feelings with loved ones who understand the depth of your grief can be comforting.
2. Seek Professional Help: If you're struggling to cope, consider speaking with a grief counselor or therapist who specializes in pet loss.
3. Memorialize Your Pet: Create a memorial for your pet, such as a scrapbook or a special place in your home dedicated to their memory.
4. Read "Belly Rubs for Chubbs": I've authored a children's picture book called "Belly Rubs for Chubbs," which explores the profound bond between dogs and humans and deals with themes of pet loss. You can preview the book for free here. It will soon be available for sale on Amazon. Access a free preview here.

Remembering the Love
While the pain of losing Chubbs will always remain, I find solace in the beautiful memories we created together. He may no longer be by my side, but he will forever be in my heart, a shining star in the night sky.

I hope that by sharing my story, I can offer some comfort and support to those who are also grieving the loss of a beloved pet. Remember that you are not alone, and there are resources and people who care about you during this difficult time.

Chubbs, you will always be my little silverback Yorkie, and I will carry your love with me forever.

With love and fond memories,

Joseline Jean-Louis Hardrick